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Since it is the season for "Merry Christmas" versus "Happy Holiday" arguments … I guess I have to ask ….?
Why why people are so upset by the companies to "Happy Holiday" is recorded instead of "Merry Christmas" signs? Other holidays which takes place in winter, so Christians have no monopoly of the winter season. So why gun-ho attitude towards this issue meaningless?
If each individual Christian in the states of all, it would only be for a while, donate money intended for gifts, the Salvation Army, they would stores the placement of "cribs" in such a hurry, he would turn his head. But since most Christians are only "churchians" really, and the holiday really not about Christ, it presents … that will never happen, right?
The latest Holiday Gift: Nurture your relationship this holiday season
If this is the season to be jolly …
… So why Why am I seeing so many couples stressed, harassed walking? Is it more likely to say, 'Tis the season to feel tense, frustrated and in constant motion? If you feel totally overwhelmed or a little frustrated, it's easy to lose perspective on what is most important and valuable for you during this holiday season – your marriage or relationship.
What holiday season mean to you and your partner? Ironically, the gift of love can be easily forgotten in this time of year. Wherever you live, is hard to ignore the commercialism and materialism that rabies has invaded the holidays. The holidays are big business and many of us are programmed to believe that the ingredients of a perfect vacation are at Your Favorite retailer.
You might think that the plasma television that is about to buy is the perfect way to celebrate your relationship, but – no matter how clear and sharp is the image – it will not strengthen your union or you and your partner compliance long-term.
The gift of you – your marriage, your relationship
Well, you've exchanged the gifts you and your partner been hinting for the past six weeks. You expressed your gratitude (or, if the gift fell short, confusion), said: "I love you", and cleaned packaging paper. Does your idea to put an end to this? Do you feel the exchange of material gifts as a celebration full of love and your relationship?
Materials Development rituals not to express your love and appreciation is a powerful way to celebrate their relationship throughout the holiday season (and during the year). How do you express your gratitude for your partner must be a reflection of your uniqueness and mean s / he has for you. Be thoughtful and creative.
One couple I worked with developed an "appreciation ritual." Each one wrote on an index card of a thing who liked each other. As one holiday gift pledged to exchange one card per week for a year. Had to think in fifty-two ways to communicate love, admiration and respect for each other. This gift had the benefit of nurturing intimacy throughout the year.
This is a question to help you put your relationship above all material elements. Ask yourself this question during the holiday season and share it with your partner:
"At this time of giving," how to create opportunities durable to express appreciation for your partner and the relationship the two have created? "
When you are busy crossing off items your shopping list, go back to that issue and explain (and therefore their relationship) the attention it deserves.
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About the Author
Richard Nicastro, Ph.D. is a psychologist and relationship coach who is passionate about helping couples protect the sanctuary of their relationship. Rich and his wife Lucia founded LifeTalk Coaching, an internet-based coaching business that helps couples strengthen their relationships.
